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Love was His Meaning

This week's letter is written by Chris Thomas.

Dear Church Family,

Those of you who read my offerings on saints and spiritual writers in the parish magazine will have seen that one of the writers I chose for the month of May was Mother Julian of Norwich, the 14th century anchorite. She asked the question about God as seen in Jesus, “What was his meaning?” to which the reply was “Love was his meaning”. Julian wrote her ‘Showings’ as she called them, her meditations over many years on a vision of the crucified Christ, during a time of political and religious turmoil and very significantly for us during the Black Death – the pandemic of her times.

Our Gospel reading for this week is once again from St. John where Christ tells his disciples that the love he has for them is the same as the Father has for Christ and they are to ‘abide’ in that same love. This is part of what is sometimes referred to as the Farewell Discourse of Jesus; in other words that intimate conversation Jesus had with his disciples during the Last Supper when he knew that he was about to be betrayed and He prepared the disciples for their life without his physical presence.

And at that supper, after surprising them all by washing their feet, Jesus gave his disciples a great new commandment – the ‘mandatum’ from which we get the word Maundy for Maundy Thursday. He says, “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you”. And he goes on to say, “I do not call you servants any longer…but I have called you friends”. Not that there is anything wrong with being God’s servant- and servants to each other we must certainly be. But what Jesus calls the disciples that evening signals a more intimate relationship. John uses the Greek word phlio which has the meaning of the ‘loved ones’ or ‘the beloved’. And so too are we the ‘beloved’ of God. And as the ‘beloved’ we must try to be the gentle mirror of how Christ has loved us in our love for each other.

How have we been loving each other and allowing ourselves to be loved during this last strange year? This year when many of our relationships have been strained by prolonged absence or in some cases too much proximity!

I have experienced a wonderful outpouring of love from my family, from my friends and from the members of the church, and last year from those who did not know me when I was in hospital. That time was a humbling one for me as I had to learn how to be the one on the receiving end of love and care. And in the overwhelming experience of a nurse kneeling on the floor washing my feet when I was too weak to do it for myself, I surely saw the face of Christ.

Some of you will have known something of this in dark days when someone has truly been as Christ to you. I know that Christ has been present to many in our community as the church has been the focus of the hard work and love which has been the distribution of food. For those not able to go out our system of contacting people by telephone and generally keeping in touch has been a blessing to many. That blessing has also been evident in the goodwill from strangers. Out walking and shopping it has been the physical social distancing which paradoxically has shown our concern for each other, and the smiles and quiet hellos that can so brighten a lonely day.

Let us pray that the love which has been flowing these months continues as we slowly emerge from lockdown and begin to live our lives a little more normally, and with the awareness that some will find this difficult, we can ease into what has been called by my friends at the Monastery the ‘healing power’ of community.

The poet-priest Malcolm Guite has written a series of sonnets in which he reflects on the church’s year. His sonnet for Maundy Thursday – when Jesus washed the feet of the disciples-finishes with these lines:

“And here He shows the full extent of love

To us whose love is always incomplete

In vain we search the heavens high above

The God of Love is kneeling at our feet”.

So let us love as he loved us and have the grace and humility to be loved in turn, seeing the face of the Christ in all people just as we try to bear His image for them.

John Patterson

John’s last services as a Licensed Lay Minister will be Sunday 27th June. He will preach at both morning Holy Communion services, before we gather for a parish lunch at St Peter’s from 1pm. Please put this date in your diary – all are welcome at the lunch (details to follow).

If you would like to donate towards a gift for John, please send cash or cheques to the Parish Office by Sunday 20th June. Bank transfers referenced “John Patterson Gift” are also welcome.

Annual Parochial Church Meeting (APCM) – Pentecost Sunday

Due to current Covid restrictions, we have had to put the APCM back to Sunday 23rd May 2021. The meeting will follow on immediately after the 9.30am service, hopefully starting at around 11am. Consequently, there won’t be an 11.15am service on that day for which we apologise for in advance.

For those of you unable to attend in person, we will also be streaming the meeting on our Zoom platform.

Christian Aid Week

We will be supporting Christian Aid Week this year from the 10th-16th May. Gift envelopes are now available from both churches. This year’s appeal focusses on the Climate Emergency and the disproportionate effect it has on the developing world.

We’d love as many of you as possible to host a coffee morning for you and up to 5 friends in your garden. You don’t need to “sign up”, but if you could let the Parish Office know if you are participating, so we can keep a track on the fundraising -

You can also join Fr Andy for a Fundraising Quiz Night on Zoom on Saturday 15th May at 7pm. You can enter as an individual (£5 per ticket) or a multi-person household (£10 per ticket). Prizes will be awarded for a variety of categories – all ages are welcome! Contact the Parish Office to sign up and purchase tickets:

With my love for you all,

Chris Thomas.

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